Venturing abroad, earning money is the top priority, especially for adults responsible for supporting their families. One of the biggest fears while abroad is running out of money. When someone is chronically short on cash abroad, it inevitably affects their mental and psychological state. While they may think they appear normal, certain details in their daily life reveal their financial struggles. Based on my observations, here are three obvious signs of long-term financial struggle abroad.
The first sign is an unconsciously displayed tense expression.
People long-term financially struggling abroad often have nerves stretched thin. On one hand, it's due to their lack of financial resources, which undermines their confidence. On the other hand, they have very few areas where they can spend money. They must plan their lives meticulously because one wrong choice can lead to numerous repercussions.
I once knew someone who came abroad heavily in debt, to work. He set a daily spending limit of 30 dollars for himself. Sometimes when friends suggested dining out or having a drink, he would appear extremely awkward. His tense expression remains unforgettable to me. Perhaps money truly represents an adult's confidence.
Some people remain calm and at ease no matter what happens because they have financial security.
The second sign is an excessive emphasis on one's own situation, even if others don't care.
Human nature is complex. Some people feel very uncomfortable when they're short on money, while others worry excessively about others knowing about their financial situation, fearing they'll be looked down upon.
Hence, in conversations, they constantly emphasize imminent purchases or boast about their current job and how much they earn monthly, even though they're struggling financially. They try to appear indifferent to money.
However, someone who genuinely isn't short on cash wouldn't feel the need to emphasize anything. Pretending to be indifferent to money isn't sustainable in the long run.
The third sign is a penchant for borrowing money from others, often small amounts.
When someone lacks money abroad, they might borrow from those around them to meet their daily needs. If they genuinely intend to change their situation, they will sincerely discuss repayment terms and commit to earning more money. However, if someone repeatedly borrows small amounts from others without intending to repay, it indicates they never planned on returning the money in the first place.
If you have such individuals around you, I advise you to steer clear.
The feeling of being financially strapped abroad is unpleasant. Especially when you see those who came abroad with you living better lives, while you're still worrying about money every day, you'll start to question if the journey was worthwhile.
What step did you take wrong to end up like this?
To all friends struggling financially abroad, I want to say: dwelling on past experiences is meaningless. We should focus on the present and future, relying on our own hands and sweat to strive and fight. When you get through this difficult phase, you'll genuinely thank yourself.
When being strong is your only choice, you'll realize just how strong you can be.
When you feel like giving up, remind yourself to hold on a little longer.
A thousand thoughts are not as powerful as one action. A magnificent fall is better than aimless wandering.
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